For households with ADHD in them

Stop being each other's reminder.

Jarmer holds the chores, the lists and the dates, so nobody has to. Your lock screen shows the one thing to do now. Done, snooze, or hand it off, without opening the app.

Join the beta How it works

iPhone, in a private beta. Free to start.

What it does for you

Holds the memory

Chores, groceries, birthdays, the wifi password. Say it once; it's kept, for everyone in the house.

Makes the decision

Now shows one thing, picked for the energy you've got. Can't choose dinner? It offers three.

Makes time visible

Chores ripen from fresh to getting due. Nothing is ever "overdue", and missed ones never pile up.

Lowers the cost of starting

A tiny first step, a five-minute timer, a routine played one step at a time.

How it works

  1. Say what's on your mind

    Everything, in any order. Jarmer sorts it: one thing on Now, the rest put away where it belongs.

  2. Let the lock screen do the rest

    Nudges come with their buttons. Most days you won't open the app. At most a few a day, each with a reason, and quiet hours by default.

  3. Hand things off, nicely

    Ask someone to take it, trade a chore just this once, or tap thanks. Requests, never reports.

  4. Reset once a week

    Fifteen minutes together, or two on your own: sort what came in, pick the week, and see how it's going. A trend, never a score.

No guilt, by design.

ADHD brains have had enough red badges. Jarmer has a rough-week switch, a "welcome back" instead of a backlog, and nothing that keeps score.

No streaksNo "overdue"No pointsNo badge countsNo inbox to clear

For two, mostly. Fine for one. Good for flatmates.

Couples

Built for the household where one or both of you has ADHD, and the reminding has started to feel like parenting.

Just you

All of it works on your own: the one thing on Now, the chores, the lists, the gentle nudges.

Roommates

Up to four. Chores go round in turns, the grocery list is shared, and your own errands stay yours.

Your household's, and private

Your private things are never sent to anyone else's phone. Location and Apple Health data stay on yours. We don't sell data or show ads. How we handle your data.